34 - Living In Servitude (Mark 10:32-45)
34 - Living In Servitude (Mark 10:32-45)
I. INTRODUCTION
Hello. This is Dr. David Wolfe, one of the pastors at Bensenville Bible Church, a two language multi-culture church on the outskirts of Chicago. Being a culturally mixed community is our DNA and RNA. Thank you for joining us.
Our study today comes from Mark’s Gospel, chap 10, vs32-45. In these 13 verses Jesus cuts to the core of the egotism of the disciples, as well as our own egotism. The rivalry among them was fierce. They are still wrestling with their status and rank among themselves. Jesus cuts to the chase, and spells out for them, if you guys really want greatness, then you first need to learn what it means to serve, or in Jesus’ words—V44, whoever wishes to be first among you shall be a slave of all. Don’t let your mind gloss over these powerful words. If you have ever wanted to know how the gospel will shape you, the answer is tucked into these 13 verses. One of the impacts of the Gospel is to reshape us into servants like Jesus.
To be an effective server, we must first learn how to serve like Jesus. As John Piper so clearly puts it, in my serving, am I feeding my ego or am I feeding the faith of others?[i] Let’s take a moment and ask God to help us understand what it means to be a servant of all.
Heavenly Father, may the Spirit open our eyes to see with increasing clarity how much our egotistic ideology hinders our ability to serve others, and hold us back from giving ourselves to the way of the cross. Amen.
II. THE WAY OF THE CROSS
A. The Shaping Of The Cross
Our focus today is on the cross and how it is designed to shape our lives. This is the third time that Mark tells us that Jesus brought up His coming death and resurrection.[ii] In looking over these verses I find it impossible for us to grasp Jesus’ concept of servantness unless we consciously factor in the reality of what it means to die. That is what Peter refers to in his first letter, chap 2:21, you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps.[iii] .
The point is, Jesus’ going to the cross shows us the way to exaltation. That’s what we are told in Philippians 2:3–9 (NASB95)3Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves; 4do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others. 5Have this attitude in yourselves which was also in Christ Jesus, 6who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men. 8Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. 9For this reason also, God highly exalted Him, and bestowed on Him the name which is above every name, I take that to mean, that as followers of Jesus, if we want to impact the people around us, we must learn what it means to die.
So Jesus said in John 12:24 (NASB95) of Himself, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. In the verse that follows, v25, He then applies His action to us, “He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal. As stated in Black’s New Testament Commentary, “To hate one’s life does not mean to despise one’s life as having no value. It is to have a higher, more encompassing allegiance than that to one’s own survival.”[iv] When we align our lives/behavior to Jesus’ calling for us, our egotistic mindset fades and we are reshaped into servants of the Most High God by entrusting our lives to the revelation of God in Jesus, and become His servants.
B. The Centrality Of The Cross
Let’s now pick up Mark’s story in v32. Jesus and His disciple team were on the road going up to Jerusalem, and Jesus was walking on ahead of them; and they were amazed, and those who followed were fearful. We need to understand that at this point Jesus was now perhaps four months out from His crucifixion or less. For the past three years He wove His life into His disciples. They had seen Him heal the impossible, raise people from the dead, and even done similar miracles themselves in His name. They knew from observation and experience about the power and the reality of who Jesus was, and yet, when He talked about the brutality of His death and life to follow, they seemed to be oblivious to it all.
Mark points out the deliberateness of Jesus’ focus—on the road to Jerusalem, Jesus was walking on ahead of them.[v] Luke, who loves detail, gives us some insight here. For he says Jesus was determined to go to Jerusalem (Luke 8:51). There is a necessity about this hike. As said in Isaiah 50:7, I have set My face like a flint. Jesus was doing the will of the Father; this is the entire focus of His life. So His pace quickened, His stride more deliberate. The joy set before Him was about to become a reality [Heb 12:2].[vi] The point is, Jesus knows that, in going to Jerusalem, He is going into the jaws of suffering and ultimately death. He is choosing to participate intentionally in His own death. Those who followed were amazed and fearful. I don’t think the word fearful has our concept of fear. In context, the fear is the sense of awe. There was something about Jesus life that conjured up a sense of amazement and awe. On their hike to Jerusalem, Jesus separates the disciples from the crowd to drive home the Father’s plan—He began telling them what was going to happen to Him (v32-34), and yet they seem unable to wrap their minds around what Jesus was telling them (Luke 18:34).
C. The Disciples Mindset
While Jesus was seeking to prepare them for the pivotal moment in history, the disciples were still arguing over their prominence. In the middle of Jesus explaining His impending death, James and John, v35, seemingly miss the point. They are more focused on sitting arrangements in the Kingdom—V37, “Grant that we may sit, one on Your right and one on Your left, in Your glory.” This is absolutely incredible. Jesus is telling them He is slated to shortly die, and they are jockeying for position. As Alister Begg points out, this isn’t loyalty. This is just raw ambition.[vii] Tucked into their mindset was worldly ambition—the seat of power. As David Garland observes What they really expect is a kingdom for themselves, where they can impose their own will on others. They hope to replace the self-serving oppressive power structure of the Romans with their own self-serving oppressive power structure.[viii]
V38, Jesus responds to their ill-timed egotistic request with much grace—“You (guys really) do not know what you are asking. Are you able to drink the cup that I am about to drink?”
In Matthew’s account, bubbling with self-confidence, and believing they’ve got what it takes to endure the hardiness of life, They answered, “We are able.” For James and John, their leaving behind their careers to follow Jesus was a means to a selfish end—power over others in general, perhaps power over Rome specifically. They were looking for the glory that came with position and power. At that moment the furthest thing from their minds was that true discipleship, true servanthood can only be learned through suffering, which even Jesus, God’s Son, was not exempted from (Heb 5:8)
D. Jesus Defines Servanthood
Upon hearing James and John’s request, V41, the disciple team exploded with outrage . . . They are angry with James and John, not just because of the request itself, but that the two brothers beat them to the punch. Immediately jealous swept over them like a giant tsunami wave, hearts gripped by pride and foolishness created turmoil of the first kind (Mark 7:20-23). The outburst opens the way for Jesus to step into their lives as a potter at a table of clay, and He begins the process of reshaping them into true servants of the Kingdom of God.
Vs42–45 42Calling them to Himself, Jesus said to them, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and their great men exercise authority over them. 43“But it is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; 44and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be slave of all. 45“For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
Timothy Geddert, in Watchwords, points out for us that Jesus is not relegating the disciples to the tail-end, but telling them how they can become great.[ix]
Notice how Jesus brings it home for the disciples. V43, in this power grab moment Jesus tells them, it is not to be this away among you. He forcefully tells them that they are not thinking like Kingdom citizens, but as outsiders. Those who are outside of the Kingdom of Heaven want seats of power and absolute rule. The Disciples were using the customs of this world as their model, which according to Ephesians 2:2, is overseen by Satan. To be a citizen of the Kingdom of Heaven is to have a self-giving mentality, just as the Son of Man, V45, did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many. Notice carefully Jesus’ statement. He came to serve, and in serving gives His life a ransom for many. In the Old Testament, the word ransom (lytron) speaks of cost. Since Jesus is the lead on this idea of ransom, and since He ties serving to the idea of ransom, the message for us is that being a servant is very costly, even to the point of death.
Here’s the paradox for us: The way to a privileged position in the Kingdom of Heaven is not by grabbing for power but by relinquishing one’s life through suffering and death.[x] As pointed out by Walter Wessel in his commentary, the entire phrase “to give his life a ransom for many” places emphasize on the substitutionary element in Jesus’ death. He takes the death of the many. In giving His life for many, He is setting all who follow Him free from slavery of sin, and eternal death as decreed by God. What should have happened to ‘the many’ happened to Jesus instead.[xi] Because He spent His life for the salvation of the many, so we are called, as Followers of Jesus, to spend our life to set many free from the slavery of sin and the eternal death reality that all people everywhere will have who have not accepted Jesus’ substitutionary death.
III. TRUTHS THAT SHAPE OUR LIVES
This is a good place to put the brakes on and let what we have just wrestled with settle into our minds. This passage is a stand out passage as to the Gospel of the Kingdom. In these verses Jesus gives His perspective as to His death and resurrection and how it plays out in the lives of His disciples and us 2000 yrs removed. Jesus expects all disciples throughout the ages to be as intentional as He was and is. This was really radical for the disciples, and I must say the service that Jesus is talking about is really radical in our day also.
As we consider Jesus’ path to greatness, just exactly how might this play out in our everyday lives?
A. First, Jesus lays out for us that we are not pattern our choices and normality after the course, rules, or systems of the world.
We see this in Vs42-43, 42Calling them to Himself, Jesus said to them, “You know that those who are recognized as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them; and their great men exercise authority over them. 43“But it is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant; Jesus tells His disciples: “You know that among the Gentiles those whom they recognize as their rulers lord it over them, and their great ones are tyrants over them.” This is what you see in the world. This is what the world looks like to your eyes. It is how people have ordered themselves without GOD. When our people wanted a king, it was to have that world.
The disciples were judging leadership in terms of the world system—a position of power over others in such a way that you can control and dominate by force to accomplish what you want. Where compliance is mandatory. What Jesus lays out here is radical. Our ‘world system’ governed by Satan himself (Eph. 2:2) is all about personal gain. Jesus’ idea of servant goes right against our culture and twisted nature. I like the way Alister Begg lays it out for us:
It addresses a culture that is preoccupied with self-esteem, self-aggrandizement, status, and valuations that are made on the basis of things that are transient and eventually worthless. And we live in the middle of that, professing to be the followers of Jesus. And Jesus says, “This is the kind of thing that marks the culture. Not so with you.”[xii]. Either we are going to live our lives within the confines of our culture, which is overseen by Satan, or we’re going to put to practice Jesus’ instructions to His disciples.
But Jesus says “But it is not so among you”--It is not so among you. You aren’t like this. You can see the Great Economy. You know the Great Economy because you know me. You can see the Great Economy isn’t only the great reconciling of the world in the future, it is in the world in which you live now.
Jesus is saying that in the kingdom over which He reigns greatness is obtained by pursuing a course of action which is the exact opposite of that which is followed in the secular world. In the Kingdom of God greatness consists in self-giving, in the outpouring of the self in service to others, for the glory of God. [xiii]
Jesus literally destroys the structure that enables rulers to control subordinates. There is no me-first mentality, using powering down on others is normal. The Gospel of the Kingdom is about serving people vs ruling over people. Peter would later wright to the scattered followers of Jesus throughout Asia—1 Peter 5:1–4 (NASB95) 1I exhort the elders among you, as your fellow elder and witness of the sufferings of Christ, and a partaker also of the glory that is to be revealed, 2shepherd the flock of God among you, exercising oversight not under compulsion, but voluntarily, according to the will of God; and not for sordid gain, but with eagerness; 3nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock. 4And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the unfading crown of glory.
As followers of Jesus we do not make choices and decisions based on world values. The disciples wanted to be great in God’s kingdom, but they thought of it in terms of worldly standards—honor, power, and security. Jesus turns their ideas upside down. The Gospel of the Kingdom is about sacrifice, service, and suffering.
B. Second, the path to greatness is measured by how we serve.
That brings us to our second principle. V45, “For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
Jesus did not come to exercise His power over man to make man serve Him. Instead He came to serve man and pay the ransom price to redeem man.
Jesus did not die on the cross so that we could live in happy circumstances, He died so that our bondage to sin could be broken, that we could be reconciled to God and escape His condemnation, and that we could now have an eternal relationship with Him. If that is the example set by our master, then what should be the mark of our lives.
This is huge for us. Notice carefully what He said: He came to serve, and His serving resulted in His dying. Jesus tells us disciples that the way to greatness is exemplified by Him giving His own life. John Piper lays it out for us plainly: Jesus is giving his death as an example of the kind of suffering and service that the disciples are called to.[xiv] I think in general that we get the ‘service’ idea, but I don’t think we get the suffering aspect and the death aspect. We gladly serve as long as there is no hardship. What Jesus is saying to us is this: If you want to follow me and seek the glory of the kingdom, be prepared to suffer. That is the way I go, and those who follow me go the same way. I don't take the hard road while you take the easy road. The road that leads to life is hard and few there be that find it (Matthew 7:14). We take the same road. "He who would come after me must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me" (Mark 8:34).[xv]
As a follower of Jesus, we are not just called to serve in an average way. Jesus said, this is how I want you to serve—serve the way I serve—
- intentionally
- flat out
- take ownership
And when we serve intentionally, flat out, taking ownership like Jesus, there will be suffering. In absolute contrast to self-interest and self-protection, Jesus tells His followers that the path to greatness comes by living as servants and slaves. If we want to be great in the eyes of God, we must descend into greatness like Jesus did, becoming a humble servant. Although the world wants us to become something by possessing wealth & power, God's idea of greatness is just the opposite. He measures greatness by our service to others. Matthew 20:26–28 (NASB95) 26“It is not this way among you, but whoever wishes to become great among you shall be your servant, 27and whoever wishes to be first among you shall be your slave; 28just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many.”
C. Third, to be a servant is to sacrifice daily
To live sacrificially is rooted in the Gospel Jesus preached and practiced. Serving is time consuming. Opportunities seem to come at the most inconvenient of times. When opportunity knocks, we are usually halfway out the door, we’re to busy, to strapped, too tired. It’s hard to sacrifice our time. Jesus calls for us to follow Him. Even though He was God, He "made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant" (Phil. 2:7). He gave up everything, literally emptying Himself of His own desires in order to serve! It was with this example in mind that we are told in Philippians 2 "Do nothing from selfishness or conceit, but in humility count others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others" (Phil. 2:3-4, RSV).
Serving involves sacrificing time. Begin to consider the other person's needs more important than your own. Be willing to give up what you had planned to do with your time. Sacrifice is a major key to effective serving.
D. Fourth, When We Serve Others, God Is Honored
1 Corinthians 1:26–31 (NASB95) 26For consider your calling, brethren, that there were not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble; 27but God has chosen the foolish things of the world to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to shame the things which are strong, 28and the base things of the world and the despised God has chosen, the things that are not, so that He may nullify the things that are, 29so that no man may boast before God. 30But by His doing you are in Christ Jesus, who became to us wisdom from God, and righteousness and sanctification, and redemption, 31so that, just as it is written, “LET HIM WHO BOASTS, BOAST IN THE LORD.”[xvi]
The point here is that a sacrificial heart is glad that God gets the credit for choosing us and calling us according to His purposes, not because our distinctiveness. He does this, v29 so that no one might boast in the presence of God, but v31, that the one who applauds, does so in the Lord. Joy in sacrificial serving is rooted in that God acts in a way to take the burden of performance off of our shoulders and use it to point to Himself. In other words, true sacrificial attitudes are rooted in the gospel of the Kingdom. True sacrificial attitudes is gospel. As John Piper points out for us, It is not just copying Jesus in his willingness to die for others; it is being enabled by Jesus because he died for us.[xvii] And that my friends is absolutely true.
Would you join me now in prayer? Heavenly Father, like the disciples of old, we struggle daily with personal grandeur, of being first, being in control, and calling the shots. It’s hard to step into the muck of life, laying aside our self-preservation to help others. It’s hard to step into the muck of life when we know there will be little to no recognition. It’s hard dying to self, to sacrifice time, money, space, tools, and even at times credibility. Amen
Well, Jesus’ life and teaching surely turns the world’s understanding of greatness and great works on its head. The greatest work ever done was accomplished by one who gave his life for others. Self-giving service is the only greatness recognized by God, and only those who give of themselves for others will be the big winners with God. They are willing “to let life go hang for the sake of another.” Jesus invites followers to join him in becoming great and doing great things, not the way the world judges “great,” but the way God judges it.[xviii]
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[i] John Piper, Greatness, Humility, Servanthood (Mark 10:32-45), https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/greatness-humility-servanthood
[ii] Jesus’ other two predictions are found in Mark 8:31 (NASB95) 31And He began to teach them that the Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected by the elders and the chief priests and the scribes, and be killed, and after three days rise again. And again in Mark 9:31 (NASB95) 31For He was teaching His disciples and telling them, “The Son of Man is to be delivered into the hands of men, and they will kill Him; and when He has been killed, He will rise three days later.” Walter W. Wessel, “Mark,” in The Expositor’s Bible Commentary: Matthew, Mark, Luke, ed. Frank E. Gaebelein, vol. 8 (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1984), 718. In addition to these three, there is a brief reference to Jesus’ death in the sequel to the Transfiguration narrative (cf. 9:9–12). Here the prediction is more detailed and precise than the others This prediction contains six details. Jesus is to be (1) betrayed (v. 33); (2) sentenced to death; (3) handed over to the Gentiles; (4) mocked, spit on, and flogged (v. 34); (5) executed; and (6) resurrected.
[iii] Then there is Hebrews 12:3 (NASB95) For consider Him who has endured such hostility by sinners against Himself, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
[iv] Andrew T. Lincoln, Black’s New Testament Commentary The Gospel According to John (Hendrickson Publishers, 2005), p350
[v] Craig A. Evans, Mark 8:27–16:20, vol. 34B, Word Biblical Commentary (Dallas: Word, Incorporated, 2001), 107. the first time that Jerusalem is specifically mentioned as Jesus’ destination.
[vi] His mission was narrowing to that pinpoint moment . . . His last Passover, the brutality of the cross, and the finality of all—sitting again at the right hand of the throne of God (Heb. 12:2)
[vii] Alister Begg, Not So With You (Mark 10:32-45), https://www.truthforlife.org/resources/sermon/not-so-you/
[viii] David E. Garland, Mark, The NIV Application Commentary (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1996), 411.
[ix] Timothy Geddert, Watchwords (Bloomsbury Academic Collections: Biblical Studies), p.153
[x] Walter W. Wessel, “Mark,” in The Expositor’s Bible Commentary: Matthew, Mark, Luke, ed. Frank E. Gaebelein, vol. 8 (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1984), 720.
[xi] Ibid., p. 721.
[xii] Alistair Begg, Not So With You (Mark 10:42-44) https://www.truthforlife.org/resources/series/gospel-according-mark-volume-5/
[xiii] William Hendriksen and Simon J. Kistemaker, Exposition of the Gospel According to Mark, vol. 10, New Testament Commentary (Grand Rapids: Baker Book House, 1953–2001), 414.
[xiv] John Piper, The Son Of Man Came To Serve (Mark 10:45), https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/the-son-of-man-came-to-serve
[xv] Ibid.
[xvi] Third, Jesus said, Serve The Way I Serve-- As Jesus came not to be served, but to serve, and give His life a ransom for many, so we are called, as followers of Jesus not to be served, but to serve and give our lives as a ransom for many.
When we become followers of Jesus, He demands something. He demands our life. All of it. Luke 14:33 (NASB95) “So then, none of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions. Jesus demands that we take on a life-style that sacrifices everything for the sake of serving others. This is hard. This is radical.
But we’re called to serve the way Jesus serves us, ransoming us from my sin and my death. Remember Jesus’ promise in John 15:5 (NASB95) “I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from Me you can do nothing. We cannot serve the kind of service He is calling us to apart from Him.
[xvii] John Piper, Greatness, Humility, Servanthood (Mark 10:32-45), https://www.desiringgod.org/messages/greatness-humility-servanthood
[xviii] David E. Garland, Mark, The NIV Application Commentary (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan Publishing House, 1996), 416–417. Cf., Compass, Sum 1997, p. 26 As a final challenge, Francis Schaeffer understood what our Savior calls us to do. And he also understood the challenge, the conflict, that too often confronts us. He wrote: “Jesus says we are to take the lowest [spot], but we like to take the higher. And we have a lovely rationalization for doing so because every time we take a bigger place we say that we can have greater influence for Jesus. But this is not the Lord’s way. To the extent that we want power among men, to that extent we are in the flesh and the Holy Spirit has no place in us. To the extent that I demand leadership and want leadership, to that extent I am not ready to lead.” https://wng.org/articles/in-tragedy-hope-and-witness-1617340389. In June 1999 American flight 1420 crashed on landing in Little Rock, Arkansas. Among the 145 passengers were 25 students returning from a musical tour in central Europe. Flight 1420 landed in a rainstorm late at night, went off the end of the runway, crashed into a light tower, then broke into flames. Most of the passengers were able to scramble to safety as smoke and flames filled the plane. Only 9 people died that day. One was a student named James Harrison, 21 year-old saxophonist, student, and part-time music minister. According to witnesses, Mr. Harrison stayed behind to help others, including a burn victim, get out first. He was overcome by smoke and perished. Allison Hunt, his singing partner for two years said, “He gave up his life so that others might live.”
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